On my walk this morning I was reflecting on where we were and how far we have come. This morning Ruby was standing by the door to the van and I asked her what’s up. She said she had thought about hiding and decided not to because it would make me mad. I know that doesn’t seem like much, but for a kid with executive function delays it’s huge. She had to use impulse control, forethought, and she put my needs before hers. I almost cried, but she really dislikes when I point out her progress.
Transitions have always been one of her biggest struggles and can easily trigger a meltdown or out of control behavior. Going back to school is a huge transition and what her OT had been wanting to see how she handled before she could graduate out of OT. Week 2 proved to be pretty tough and I have to admit that we even looked into homeschooling at one point. Thankfully an OT visit, changes in our night routine, and getting settled set us back on the right path. I was trying to stay on our summer routine when she needed more physical activity without thinking that she was coming home mentally exhausted and just needed to be mellow.
The last couple of weeks have been better and our thoughts of homeschooling are fading. In the darkest moment of daily meltdowns I was worried that she was losing the progress we made. Now I can see that it was a wobble. I’m sure we will have more wobbles in the future, but it’s getting easier to see that even though the path in not always straight it keeps marching forward.